Podcast Episode 223 - 10 Sure Fire Ways to Stay Stuck - #8 Never Ask Questions
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Have you ever gotten halfway through a project or new endeavor and thought, “Dang I wished I knew that before I started?”
Have you ever gotten a chance to sit with someone you admire, but your mind froze, and you couldn’t think of anything intelligent to say?
Or worse, have you ever been around a successful person and just shot your mouth off and later thought, “What was I thinking?”
It’s time for #8 of our 10 Sure Fire Ways to Stay Stuck! There’s so much to learn to get to where we want to go, but there’s one thing that’ll stop you in your tracks if you don’t understand how to do it well.
So today is for you if…
If you’re tired of being stuck, not knowing what to do next.
If you desire more for your life than you’re living right now.
If you are ready to go to another level in fulfilling your God-given purpose.
#8 Sure-Fire Way to Stay Stuck – Never Ask Questions
Have you ever met a know-it-all? Oh, they drive me crazy!
Never asking questions is your quickest way to get stuck and stay stuck. You’re only left with your thoughts, opinions and perspectives.
And let’s face it; no one knows everything.
Sure-Fire Way to Succeed – Ask Thoughtful Questions
Asking questions helps you:
Gain new knowledge and perspectives
Clarify your thoughts and feelings
Challenge existing beliefs
Identify areas of uncertainty or confusion
Achieve new insights and breakthroughs
Expand your understanding and broadens your horizons
Demonstrates curiosity which stimulates creativity and innovation
Develop unique solutions to problems
Willingness to learn and adapt – teachable
Questions foster personal growth, helping you become your best self. When you’re your best self, you’re more equipped to fulfill your God-given purpose.
Mentors can provide valuable guidance and support as you grow and develop new skills. Andy Andrews calls his mentors his advisory board. And they don’t even have to know they’re on it.
Let’s discuss what questions are good to ask mentors and those you want to learn from.
It’s important to prepare questions that’ll elicit insightful and meaningful responses.
Here are some great questions to ask:
1. How did you get started, and what inspired you to pursue this career or endeavor?
2. What were some challenging situations you faced along the way, and how did you overcome them?
3. What do you consider as your key attributes or strengths in reaching success?
4. What are some valuable lessons you’ve learned throughout your journey?
5. What is one piece of advice you would give to someone who wants to follow in your footsteps? Or what do you wish you’d known when you started your journey?
6. Who are your role models, and what impact have they had on your life’s direction?
7. Can you provide tips on balancing work, family, and personal life?
8. What skill sets are essential for your industry’s success, and how can one acquire them?
9. What are some common mistakes people make when pursuing a similar path, and how can they avoid them?
10. What’s the next big goal you’re working towards, and how are you planning to achieve it?
Bonus: What’s one thing I should be asking you that I didn’t think to ask?
Ask great questions and get great answers. –Andy Andrews
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